Dear Tiff, 

Knowing that you are writing a book makes me so happy for you. Especially when writing about family. Family is supposed to be a place where children feel love, protection and safety. However, from a young age, our family only brought you hurt, fear, and frustration. I hope through this process of writing and making, that you uncover a better understanding of your family, and the differences in traditions and cultures of our past generations. Perhaps through these discoveries, you will gain a deeper understanding of the root of these issues, as well as a better sense of yourself. Problems, though hard, can help not only yourself, but others too. In terms of how I see it, I think the biggest problems lie in people’s self-centeredness, and not solely on the difference of cultural and familial traditions. Centering family around the love of God will bring you blessings and grace. I hope one day that you will put God in your heart- God is love. 

Mom. Pauline

3.29.2017